Meeting the right kind of woman can often be a difficult thing. We all know it’s easy to walk into your local bar and have plenty of women to choose from, it’s hard to find one that matches your personality and share’s similar common interests. This is made even harder if you aren’t looking for the party girl type of woman.

So where do you go to meet more laid back women that don’t spend every night of the weekend in a bar or out dancing?

Some good places I’ve came across are:

Wine tasting

Hopefully you like wine or this might not be your thing. I’ve met some really interesting women while being at a wine tasting event. If you’re not familiar with wine tasting events, they’re events organized by a club or business as a way to get people to judge different wines while being able to meet and get to know different people. What’s great about wine tasting events is you get to enjoy a fun hobby while getting the chance to engage people in conversation, the alcohol also makes it easier for you to approach women.

Libraries

This might sound like an odd place to meet a girl but it can be a pretty good place if you know what to look for. A lot of people go to libraries to study or research, but you can still find a good number of women who like to just browse the shelves and look at different books. As long as you find women that aren’t preoccupied, you can start a conversation with her without being to forward.

Dinner clubs

I’m not sure if you’ve ever been to a dinner club? I hadn’t been to one until a friend asked me to join him one night a few months back. Anyway the focus of these groups are to bring compatible people based on things such as age/interests/backgrounds for dinner and conversations. One good thing about dinner clubs is you get to meet a number of people (not only women) and make an instant connection in a laid back atmosphere. You can also engage women in a conversation without having that feeling of pressure you normally get with a date.

Of course there are loads of places to meet women such as charity events, museums and art galleries etc. These are just 3 that have worked well for me that maybe aren’t as common as some other places.

How  do I attract girls? I’m sure i’m not the only guy thats asked that question to myself before. I had heard alot of people say that women want a “rich guy” or a “bad boy” well I thought good for them but im neither of those.

I thought to myself there has to be more to attracting women than I thought, so I decided to search the net for some tips and help on picking up women. Well I did’nt really find much at first just aload of rehashed junk I could have been told by a friend. So I dug alittle deaper and came across some interesting tips.

Heres afew of the tips I came across that will help you out:

• Keep things light when you talk to her, make her laugh but don’t turn into a preforming monkey for a girl. Also don’t go into “interview mode” and start asking her where shes from? what she does for a living? what colour socks shes wearing? etc. This will just bore her and you will lose attraction.

• Good body language will help you attract women a lot easier, I read somewhere that 90% of communication is done through body language. So having good body language is a must. How do you get good body language? Well it all really comes down to being relaxed and having good posture.

• Here’s a pretty obvious tip, women love the smell of aftershave on a guy and I don’t mean smell you’ve had a bath in the stuff. A really big turn off for women is a guy that stinks of sweat.

• Showing value, this doesn’t mean telling a girl you drive a sports car or are a millionaire, women will just see that as showing off. A good way to show value is to have goals, this can be something as small as getting  high grades. As long as you feel you’re valuable then it will show and women will see it.

• Confidence, this is probably the most import thing when it comes to attracting women. The best way to gain confidence around girls is to not worry about the outcome, but instead look at every encounter, every interaction, every opportunity to interact with girls as play and have fun.

Keep those tips in mind as they’re pretty helpful when it comes to attracting girls.